The Scripture...

“For Christ’s love compels us, because we are convinced that one died for all, and therefore all died. And he died for all, that those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again…” -2 Corinthians 5:14

Saturday, March 31, 2012

Getting to know you! Featuring: Erin & Eseli

"And I've now become an expert, on the subject I like most... getting to know you, getting to know you, getting to know all about you, getting to like you... putting it my way, but nicely, you are precisely, my cup of tea!" I love these words that Anna shares as she sings to the King in the motion picture, The King and I. I must say that these Liel girls are my cup of tea--my favorite subject. I delight in getting to know them, getting to serve them, and growing in love for them.

Today, I wanted to feature Erin and Eseli in this post. They loved being interviewed and photographed as girls always appreciate special attention :) Though Eseli and Erin were raised in different nations, they have much in common. This year was their first year at BFA and they both came to the Liel dorm a little shy and a little bit quiet. But, today, they are the life of the party! They have completely warmed to us and are fully able to be themselves. They make sure that life around the dorm is never a dull moment--cracking jokes at dinner, teasing Uncle T (the Liel dorm dad), executing pranks, and then of course, they also demonstrate the normal high school girl behavior of laughing, screaming, and yelling! Though the transition for any new student at BFA is difficult, I am so proud of Erin and Eseli for the ways that they have gotten involved in our community (sports, AWANA, small groups, singing in the BFA talent show, etc.), embraced their dorm sisters, and succeeded in academics. Eseli's beautiful smile and contagious laugh make my day. Erin's thoughtful gifts, handwritten notes left on on my bathroom mirror, and the way that she unashamedly asks any and all questions, encourages my heart. Enjoy getting to know my favorite subjects!

A beautiful girl!
(My personal favorite)

Eseli rocking her favorite BFA Volleyball t-shirt!

The SMILE!

The SMILE again!
Ah, I love it!
Energetic Eseli!

CTL: Tell me about your name. EE: “Eseli means ‘grace,’ the grace of God.”

CTL: Tell me about you. What makes you, you? EE: “Well, I like being around people and I also love to read and have alone time. I can be really stubborn, but only momentarily, then I can be really happy, so I have odd mood swings. I also really like to laugh. People think that I am really funny, I like that a lot.”

CTL: What is your best joke? EE: “Well, mhmm. I have no idea. But it is funny for people when my accent changes—sometimes it is really Nigerian and then it’s really not Nigerian. I grew up in a British school in Nigeria.” What is your best Nigerian/British line? “Instead of saying ‘shut up,’ I prefer something more along the lines of, “would you kindly be quiet!’”

CTL: What do you miss most and least about home? EE: “I miss the feeling of home most—being in the place that you have known forever. I also miss my parents and my brother. On the other hand, I am able to enjoy nature in Germany that I can’t do in Nigeria since it is mostly city and buildings.”

CTL: Can you tell us about any Nigerian traditions from home? EE: “When there is a birthday party, people are always invited. So there is a gathering or party. There is music. And then there is always time to reflect on the Bible and thank God for how many years of life He has given someone and the things that he/she is grateful for.”

CTL: What do you like most and least about living in Germany? EE: “I like the dorm and the German language here the most. I am studying German and the language is so cool and different. I had never heard it before. The German people are also so nice. But, I really don’t like the cold. I really didn’t like winter. It was way too cold for me. But, at least we got to go sledding. I did like that!”

CTL: Can you share something that you have learned over the past year, about yourself or about God? EE: “For myself, I have learned a lot about responsibility and time management.As for God…I have learned that He knows why He does things. Even though I didn’t understand why I was coming to Germany, He knew. And I am enjoying Germany so much. Sometimes He does things that I don’t understand and yet they have such good outcomes.” So you have been surprised by His goodness? “Yes. I didn’t think that I would like Germany. But I do. I didn’t think that I would like living in a dorm. But, I do!”

CTL: What is your favorite dorm dinner? EE: “Taco salad!”

CTL: What about your favorite dorm activity? EE: “Troughing people on their birthdays. The person is sitting down in the dorm (usually after dinner), then we grab her, and then we take her to the water trough in town, dunk her, and then run back to the dorm … the birthday girl trails behind us, chasing us for wet hugs!”

CTL: What do you want to be when you grow up? EE: “A doctor.” Why? “Because I like the idea of being able to treat people. It’s mostly about helping people and making them happy.” Where?In the US, but I don’t know which state.”

CTL: What is of most value to you? EE: “Two things: God and family. God most especially, because He is always there. He is my Comforter.” (This made me smile)

CTL: If you had a magic wand, what would you do with it? EE:I would transport myself to Australia, then I would create a castle and have an open area with a gym and pool (with slides from one floor to another). That would be cool. I would share it with my friends and family, and a boyfriend… if I had one!”

CTL: Before you die, tell me one wild thing you want to do? EE: “Bungy jump off of Mt. Everest—if I can do that?!?"

The name "Erin" means peace--
so this is Erin living out the fullness of her name :)

Emo Erin?

Hello, world!
(Also my personal favorite)

Eskimo Erin?

Energetic Erin--also full of life!

CTL: What is the significance of your name? EL: “My parents named me ‘Erin’ because it means ‘peace,’ and then they gave me the middle name, ‘Hope.’ It goes so well together.”

CTL: Tell me about your family? EL: “I am the youngest and I have two older sisters. The oldest is 23, her name is Shannon. She is very artsy and very creative and likes to paint and draw and knit. Megan is in the middle, she is 20. When we were younger, we did not get along. I was annoying and so was she. But over the past few years, we have become best friends. We are a lot a like. People often assume that we are twins. She is very caring and compassionate. And then my parents are workers in Asia."

CTL: How would you describe yourself? EL: “I like to have fun. I like to be different. I care a lot about people. I want a job where I can help people—counseling or nursing. I really want people to be happy. I want to make a difference.”

CTL: You’re also a pranskster, right? EL: “Ha! Yes! I love to prank and laugh.” What has been your most successful prank/joke? “Okay this one is going to sound mean, but my best one is pulling out a chair from under a person when they are trying to sit down. I do that a lot.” I know you have done something bigger and better, Erin! Please share. “Okay! My best friend and I gave my youth group some brownies with salt, dog food, and some laxative (CTL: Gasp!) Not a lot of people ate it, but they only thought we were really bad bakers. But then they got us back and threw us in the snow. And we did end up telling them what was really in it.”

CTL: What has been your favorite Liel memory from this past year? EL: “Oh, this is really hard, really hard! It was really great to go to the Roman bathes in Bad Bellingen. It was wonderful to just be with the girls. I love our dorm and just being together. It was also a lot of fun to swim in the pools there.”

CTL: What do you miss most about Colorado or the United States? EL: “I miss the summer time in Colorado, my close friends, and cheer. I also miss being together as a family like we were in Colorado. Now, we’re all spread out!”

CTL: What one word would you use to describe your first year at BFA? EL: “Dramatic!” How so? “Coming here was an entirely new experience. And oh man, yes! Living with 15 girls is pretty dramatic too. It was hard at first because it was so different, but I have had so much fun with the girls. It is really good now.”

CTL: Can you tell me about a way that God has blessed you while you were here or how He did something unexpected? EL: “I have struggled to adjust here, but the people here have made a difference! I have grown in patience and responsibility. I have really learned so much about God. I have been able to see so much and enjoy so many new experiences that not every teenage girl gets to do. He has blessed me so much. And then there is my roommate, Ji Soo. When we first met, we clicked! She is my best friend here. I can tell her everything. I have been so lucky to have her as my roommate and my best friend. She is like my kiss from Jesus!”

CTL: If you could be any character in the “Hunger Games” triology, who would you be (because you love them so much)? EL: “Uh, that is really tough because everyone’s life is so hard—those in the district or in the games. You are either suffering or doing bad stuff. In the book, the main character has a little sister who has a cat. I would be the cat. So I don’t have to die or kill people but still experience life there. Or I would be Katniss so I could say to myself, ‘Wow, I am capable of more than I ever imagined!’”

CTL: What is your favorite German goodie? EL: “I love the Berliners! It’s a doughnut covered in powdered sugar with strawberry jelly inside! We got them for free at IKEA before Lent started…they were so good!”

CTL: What is it like to be an MK (missionary kid)? EL: “It’s hard to describe how it feels—sometimes you feel alone or like you don’t belong in other places. But, when MKs are together, it is so wonderful. They are such good people with great personalities. Being an MK, you make sacrifices, and a lot of people don’t understand it, but you do it for your family and you do it for God. You love God and your family, so you become willing to do make the sacrifice. You can really see God here at BFA—it is such a safe, happy, and comfortable place. After giving myself time to adjust, I really do value this place.”

Thursday, March 8, 2012

Unlikely Visitors

Nothing is sweeter than visitors--people willing and ready to step into your life, share it, understand it, and love you for it...especially when you are so far away from home. I have been anticipating my dad's 10-day visit for several weeks. Considering that German winters can be long, cold, dreary, and sometimes depressing, I knew that his visit would give me something wonderful and special to look forward to...

Dad & I in Altstadt or Old Town, Zurich

[*Fun side note and story: Soon after dad booked his flights, I received an email from my mom's high school friend who needed my help with a school project for her 4th grade daughter, Natalie. Are you familiar with the Flat Stanley books? This project is designed to teach elementary school students about geography, history, culture, and language. Each student creates and sends his or her own "Flat Stanley" to travel across the world and experience life in a new place. So, it was quite a delight to receive Flat Stella and host her at Liel for several weeks. My dad and I took her on several adventures this week--we hiked up the tallest mountain in our region (Hochblauen, 1300 m), visited Roman ruins and bathes in the town of Badenweiler, attended BFA track practices, shopped at the local grocery store, and delighted in some yummy German kaffee und kuchen. Both my dad and Stella left this morning from the Zurich airport, en route to Washington, D.C. Please enjoy some of our pictures!]

Welcome to Liel!

Roman Ruins
Badenweiler, Germany


Stella ordered a "latte macchiato und kirsche kuchen" at the BioCafe
(Lauren's favorite...see last post)

We're having a great time together :)
Dad & I at the preserved ruins of Roman bathes in Badenweiler

Returning to dad's visit...
It was indeed wonderful and special! Dad and I ventured around the Old Town of Zurich, went for several hikes in the Black Forest and in local vineyards, enjoyed wonderful German food and coffee at my favorite places, but most importantly, he shared life with me. He stepped into my work, my world, and into my relationships with these students. He played cards in the dining room with Seth, Michelle, and Laura. He cut and peeled carrots (for the first time in his life:); after all, he is more accustomed to tilling soil and planting seeds) in the kitchen. He hung bulletin boards and pictures on the third floor. He washed LOTS of dishes in our dish room. He helped me grocery shop for weekend meals. AND bless his heart, he helped me fold laundry in the basement (also a first)! It was so special to see him laugh with the girls, tease the girls, holler up the stairs for the girls who were late for dinner, and simply call them by name.

Over the weekend, we were able to chaperone the BFA high school retreat in Lenk, Switzerland, which was a time that we both treasured. The purpose of the spiritual retreat is to give the high schoolers a break from their busy schedules to enjoy creation (the Alps!), worship, the teaching of a guest speaker, and small group time with their adult leaders. We were able to ski with Joyce and Talya, soak in the powerful teaching, and lead small groups to discuss the sessions. Dad helped lead a small group with senior guys and I led a group of sophomore girls. The lessons on sin, why bad things happen to good people, love, and the will of God were extremely challenging. Dad and I were both able to have vulnerable conversations with our students and share pieces of our testimony about how God has redeemed our pain and enabled us to love. Dad left the retreat feeling transformed by the powerful messages and changed because of the relationships he built with those boys. Glory to God in the highest :)

Speaking of glory to God...

This reminds me that during the retreat, our worship band from Salem, North Carolina, introduced me to a new song that I cannot help but share...

Glory to God Forever
Fee

Before the world was made,
Before You spoke it to be,
You were the King of Kings.
Yeah You were, yeah You were.
Now You're reigning still,
Enthroned above all things.
Angels and saints cry out.

We join them as we sing glory to God,
Glory to God, glory to God forever.
Glory to God, glory to God,
Glory to God forever, yeah.

Creator, God you gave me breath
So I could praise Your great
And matchless name all my days,
All my days.
So let my whole life be a blazing offering,
A life that shouts and sings
For greatness of our King.

Glory to God, glory to God,
Glory to God forever.
Glory to God, glory to God,
Glory to God forever.

And take my life and let it be
All for You and for Your glory.
Take my life and let it be Yours.
Take my life and let it be
All for You and for Your glory.
Take my life and let it be Yours.

We sing glory to God, glory to God,
Glory to God forever.
We sing glory to God, glory to God,
Glory to God forever.
Glory to God, glory to God,
Glory to God forever.

And take my life and let it be
All for You and for Your glory.
Take my life and let it be Yours.
Take my life and let it be
All for You and for Your glory,
Take my life and let it be Yours.

We sing glory to God,
Glory to God,
Glory to God forever.

This is one of my favorite pictures--Daddy at the foot of the cross
(on a walk through Liel's vineyards)

What a perfect way to end this update--take our lives, Jesus, they belong to you.
Glory to God, forever!

*Thank you, Dad, for loving me enough to step into my life that is so far away. I love you.

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Liel's Unlikely Visitor of the Month Award!

We are honored and blessed to welcome Kristine Hong to the Liel dorm! Kristi is an answer to our prayers and wins our unlikely visitor of the month award! She will be serving as a short term missionary at BFA for the next three months where her official title is a Resident Assistant at Liel! God's goodness continues to surprise and humble me. We are so thankful that Kristi was willing and able to come and join us in this outreach to BFA students.

Glory to God, forever.